Dazed but not confused: The way you can tell a difference is that at the end, the elder says thank you for letting us change up the meeting. This was NOT scheduled! There was no local needs scheduled for that night May 13/14th.
He was also very specific about some who are STUDYING and mentioned specifically someone sending emails & text contents. This is what started it between Rochelle & the C.O.B.E's wife [the one studying with her].
Cedars did an article telling her story.